Inspiration

What is Your Code of Conduct?

I got a Kindle for father's day and I really like it. I can't quite explain why, maybe it's the eInk screen (no glare, no back-lit eye fatigue), or maybe it's just because it is single purposed around reading books). In any event, I downloaded The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin - you know the guy: one of the founding fathers of the United States of America. He's on the $100 bill! The book has been very inspiring, and one section in particular has resonated with me: the art of virtue. Benjamin Franklin articulated for himself a list of virtues, and what they meant for him. These are the standards he tried to live by (admitting failure on several occasions!). He even went so far as to devise a scheme to measure his progress in living up to this personal code of conduct. Given his success in life, perhaps a personal code of conduct is something we should all articulate for ourselves. Here is Benjamin Franklin's:

  1. TEMPERANCE. Eat not to dullness; drink not to elevation.
  2. SILENCE. Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself; avoid trifling conversation.
  3. ORDER. Let all your things have their places; let each part of your business have its time.
  4. RESOLUTION. Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve.
  5. FRUGALITY. Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself; i.e., waste nothing.
  6. INDUSTRY. Lose no time; be always employ'd in something useful; cut off all unnecessary actions.
  7. SINCERITY. Use no hurtful deceit; think innocently and justly, and, if you speak, speak accordingly.
  8. JUSTICE. Wrong none by doing injuries, or omitting the benefits that are your duty.
  9. MODERATION. Avoid extreams; forbear resenting injuries so much as you think they deserve.
  10. CLEANLINESS. Tolerate no uncleanliness in body, cloaths, or habitation.
  11. TRANQUILLITY. Be not disturbed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable.
  12. CHASTITY. Rarely use venery but for health or offspring, never to dulness, weakness, or the injury of your own or another's peace or reputation.
  13. HUMILITY. Imitate Jesus and Socrates.

I see a little bit of Zen Habits in this list, specifically Ben's item on Resolution: isn't this just like purposing your day by articulating your Most Import Task? What is your code of conduct? What would you add or change in Mr. Franklin's list of virtues?

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Only Keep The Bad Wine

No Comments » Written on June 13th, 2011 by Brick
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What conclusions about your life would you make if the plane you were in was about to crash? On January 15, 2009, Ric Elias was in seat 1D on US Airways Flight 1549. About three minutes after take off from LaGuardia airport in New York City, the plane was struck by a flock of geese which resulted in almost complete engine failure. Unable to reach an airfield, the crew decided to ditch the plane in the Hudson river. Miraculously, all 155 occupants of the plane survived. Ric recently shared the three things that went through his mind during the final minutes of the flight as he assumed his life would shortly be over.

I Collect Bad Wines

Ric realized that life can change in an instant. He thought about all the things he wanted to experience and all of the people he wanted to reach out to but had put off. He now says that "if the wine is ready and the person is there, I'm opening it". He no longer wants to postpone anything and this urgency has changed his life.

My Only Regret

Even though Ric felt pretty good about his life and that he had been a good person, he had one regret: wasting time on things that did not matter with people who did matter. As he puts it "I no longer try to be right, I choose to be happy". We often let our ego get in the way of what is truly important.

Dying Is Not Scary

In the final moments, Ric realized that dying is not scary and how in a way it felt as if he had been preparing himself for that event his whole life. However, it was sad. It was sad because he realized he wanted more than anything to see his kids grow up and he realized that all that truly mattered for him, his main goal and purpose in life, was to be a great father.

Watch below as Ric describes the gift of being able to see into the future, come back, and live differently:

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The Best Cover Tunes Ever

No Comments » Written on May 15th, 2011 by Brick
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I'm not sure this has anything to do with the Life Sutra, however I've really been digging these cover songs by Tyler Ward so I wanted to pass my +1 for these guys on. No disrespect to the Far East Movement, but G6 is probably more the style of my young nieces and nephews. When Tyler Ward covers it, well, that's something I can actually listen to! Check out their cover of Far East Movement's Rocketeer (if truth be told, the original is actually pretty good too):

 

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Why I Don’t Give A Shit

are you sure?This is perhaps the most refreshing blog post I've read in a long time: Julien Smith's Complete Guide to Not Giving a Fuck. Very timely as I've just gone through a period where I was deeply concerned about what people were thinking about me, and it was driving me nuts. Julien's advice: people are judging you right now and there is nothing you can do about it. Furthermore, you don't need everyone to like you. The part on focusing on the people who actually care about you is priceless (think of the people you can - and probably do unfortunately - take for granted). You must read Julien's guide right now!

Note: My first reaction was not to use a swear word in the title, or quote the actual title of Julien's post because of the F bomb, but Julien makes a great point about that too: don't hide your true voice, the eye you feel watching you can do only that - watch. So fuck it, here's to Julien!

Creative Commons License photo credit: Verano y mil tormentas.

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Our Greatest Fear

No Comments » Written on May 1st, 2009 by Brick
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"Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate, but that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, handsome, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God within us. It is not just in some; it is in everyone. And, as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

- Marianne Williamson

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The Critical Ingredient For Success: Failure

No Comments » Written on January 26th, 2009 by Brick
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I think this would qualify as the fourth installment in my Life Sutra Motivational video series (technically, the preceding installments were all speeches, however this one is not). Just a reminder that there is no success without failure, that failure is simply the discovery of one method that didn't work, and therefore another step towards success, something to learn from, but hardly something to dwell upon:

 

Story Behind the Video

I should say my story behind the video: I follow Guy Kawasaki on twitter (feel free to follow me). He posts (or should I say "tweets" - I can't stand the term) every 3 minutes as far as I can tell. I am quite sure he's outsourced his twitter to virtual assistants. Last night he sent out a link to the above video. I thought it was cool, but I was too tired to write about it. This morning, I couldn't find his "tweet", but I recalled him labeling the video "F-A-N-T-A-S-T-I-C", so I searched twitter for "F-A-N". And now we can see how these things go viral.

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"Yes, And" Instead Of "No, But"

1 Comment » Written on May 15th, 2008 by Brick
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This is the third installment of the Life Sutra Motivational Speech Series. Like the second installment, Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish, this speech is also from a university commencement ceremony. However, the celebrity speaker is very different than Steve Jobs - this time around, Stephen Colbert of the Colbert Report dishes out a lot of hilarity, and a little bit of sound advice. He discusses the importance of the "yes, and" principle of improvisational comedy (otherwise known as "not rejecting an offer"), and applies it to the greatest improvisation of all - our lives:

Well, you are about to start the greatest improvisation of all. With no script. No idea what's going to happen, often with people and places you have never seen before. And you are not in control. So say "yes." And if you're lucky, you'll find people who will say "yes" back.
- Stephen Colbert

 

Enjoy the speech! I laughed my head off, I hope you will enjoy it too:

 

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Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish

No Comments » Written on March 19th, 2008 by Brick
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I bring you the second instalment of the Life Sutra Motivational Speech Series. Actually it is the first official instalment, however I would like to consider Randy Pausch's Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams speech in my The Other Lecture post to be the unofficial first instalment. Today's motivational speech was given by Apple CEO Steve Jobs at the 2005 Stanford Commencement ceremonies. Truly inspiring:

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The Other Lecture

6 comments Written on February 13th, 2008 by Brick
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Randy Pausch is a well known and admired educator in computer science circles. In September of 2006, Professor Pausch was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and was told he had between three to six months of decent health left. Later that month, he gave a rather inspiring lecture at Carnegie Mellon University entitled Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams. Ironically, the talk was part of what used to known as the Last Lecture Series: If you had one last lecture to give before you died, what would it be? This talk has come to be known as Randy Pausch’s Last Lecture:

 

I'll let you watch it for yourself. And when you are done, ask yourself, isn't achieving your childhood dreams not the very definition of fulfillment?

Remember brick walls let us show our dedication. They are there to separate us from the people who don’t really want to achieve their childhood dreams. Don’t bail. The best of the gold’s at the bottom of barrels of crap.

Source: Randy Pausch Last Lecture

While that lecture has become quite popular on the Internet, and in and of itself extremely relevant to the spirit of The 4-Hour Workweek, Pausch also gave another lecture that is worth mentioning here, especially considering the time management kick I have been on lately. The lecture is actually on the topic of effective time management. It was originally given back in 1998, but Pausch was asked to give it again (post cancer diagnosis) late last year. A lecture on time management from someone with probably not that much longer to live has a certain credibility:

 

Besides nailing the concepts of "time is money", the Pareto principle, and planning & prioritizing, what I really like about this lecture are some of the absolutely practical tips (I'll mention a few here, but you can really just watch the lecture for yourself!) he provides:

  • Develop strategies to minimize the time spent on Telephone calls: consider using a speaker phone and/or a head set. Have, or insist on, an agenda for phone calls. Stand while you are on the phone. Batch phone calls to just before lunch or at the end of day - that way people you are talking with have a motivation to get off the phone.
  • Email: batch the processing of email to a limited number of times each day. Process your inbox to zero. File, but never delete email.
  • Journal you Time: It is hard to impossible to manage your time if you do not track where it is spent. At a minimum, track how much time you spend watching television. Consider getting rid of your television.
  • When you delegate, be specific and empower that person to complete the job without further intervention from yourself.
  • If you find yourself procrastinating, ask yourself why you are putting it off. Sometimes, all you have to do is ask someone else for help.
  • When you have small children, exchange money for time at every opportunity.

As Pausch points out, unlike money, we can never get our time back.

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Secrets Of Success

2 comments Written on February 5th, 2008 by Brick
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For those of you who do know know about TED, I highly recommend you visit their site. TED (Technology, Entertainment, Design) started in 1984 as a conference bringing together remarkable and fascinating thinkers to exchange their ideas on technology, entertainment, and design. TED Speakers are challenged to give the talk of their lives in under 20 minutes.

I have subscribed to many of their podcast feeds. I have got into the habit of watching the talks on my iPod as an alternative to television when I want to relax, yet at the same time be educated.

Richard St. John, a marketing guru, spent over 10 years interviewing successful people to understand what makes them successful. His findings resulted in 8 to Be Great: The 8 Traits that Lead to Great Success. At TED, he gave a fabulous 3 minute summary of this eight-fold path. What I learned from the talk is that successful people are characterized by the following traits:

  • Passion: Do what you do for love not money.
  • Work: Work hard at what you do, but have fun doing it.
  • Good: Get good at what you do - practice, practice, practice.
  • Focus: Focus on one thing (reminds me of single-tasking).
  • Push: Push away shyness and self doubt.
  • Serve: Serve others something of value.
  • Ideas: Observe, listen and ask questions.
  • Persist: Persist through all the CRAP (Criticism, Rejection, Assholes, Pressure)!

I highly encourage you to watch the talk for yourself (conveniently accessible immediately below) - a mere three minute investment of your time!

 

Odds & Ends

You may have noticed some modifications to the site. Over time, all things evolve. Since starting this blog, I have realized that The 4-Hour Work Week is only one of the many blueprints for lifestyle change that I want to discuss. It, in fact, compliments a lot of other material I have read, followed, discovered, or applied over the years. I often find value for myself in many lifestyle philosophies and schools of thought. While I am still on a quest for a four hour work week and committed to documenting my progress here (I am therefore retaining The 4-Hour Workweek Journal as the blog's subtitle), I am finding and applying other bits of wisdom along the way - from the more mundane (like how to organize my stuff) to the sublime (such as the attributes of great leaders).

Thus, I have decided to rename the blog. Sutra is a Sanskrit word that means a thread that holds things together. Metaphorically, a sutra refers to a collection of aphorisms, or rules in the form of a manual. One could say that life sutra means a manual on the discipline of life. Life Sutra is my attempt to find and compile “rules of life”. Specifically, to discover how one lives fully while working more efficiently and effectively. I want to share what I learn with you, and I hope you will continue to do the same through your comments and feedback!

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